Here’s What to Look for When Visiting Senior Loved Ones During the Holidays
Did you know more than 25% of all Ohioans aged 65 and older live alone? The holiday season is a great time to check in on your senior loved ones. Here’s why.
If you haven’t seen your parents for a while, you rvay be surprised when you see them. You may notice some weight loss, there may be some balance issues, maybe you see some bruises from falls, or as they are walking, you may notice them “furniture surfing” as they walk, touching each item of furniture to stay balanced.
Your parents or grandparents may be reluctant to acknowledge they are having struggles at home and often are not ready to talk about moving. We can help you have those tough conversations if you see any clues they may be ready to move.
Cleanliness
Other things to look for when visiting are the conditions and cleanliness of the house. If your parent has previously been a meticulous housekeeper, you may notice the house is not as well kept anymore. They may have vision problems and can't see to clean as well, or even have some pain or arthritis and can’t get down to clean. They can't take care of things like they used to.
Food & Medicine
Staying healthy by maintaining a nutritious diet and staying current on medications is critically important for seniors. When visiting, it is essential to check out the refrigerator and the medicine cabinet. Make sure they have food available. They may not be getting to the grocery store. Check if the items in their fridge and pantry are expired. If they have a vision problem, they may not notice. Seniors may often skip meals or choose something fast and easy rather than nutritious. Make sure they are continuing to eat healthy, balanced meals. If buying and preparing food is becoming a burden, the convenience of dining in a senior living community may be appealing to them.
Checking the medications' dates and ensuring they are taking their medications as prescribed is very important.
Others Can Check In
What if you live out of town or cannot visit this holiday season? If you have friends or family in the area, have them check in if possible. You can always contact a senior living community like Traditions, they would be able to make a home visit.
Start The Conversation
Start by having conversations with them and including them in the decision. Ask them some basic questions. Include them in the conversation. They may be lonely and enjoy being around other people. It’s better to have that conversation early rather than wait until it’s an emergency situation.
